What is trauma?
Trauma is a word that is frequently used, but what does it actually mean? Trauma is commonly understood as the experiencing or witnessing of an event that is life-threatening or dangerous or otherwise overwhelming. It usually involves a feeling of helplessness. Many people serving in the military experience trauma, as do individuals who survive a natural disaster, serious accident, or personal attack. Traumatic stress can also be caused by ongoing stress caused by, for example, living in an abusive relationship or struggling with a life-threatening illness.
However, what determines whether or not an event is traumatic is not the event itself, but the individual’s response to it. Any situation that leaves you feeling overwhelmed and alone can be traumatic, even if it doesn’t involve physical harm. Some people will experience the breakup of a significant relationship as traumatic, for example.
An event is most likely to be experienced as traumatic if:
- It happened unexpectedly;
- You were unprepared for it;
- You felt powerless to prevent it;
- It happened repeatedly;
- Someone was intentionally cruel;
- It happened in childhood.
What are the symptoms of traumatic stress?
A person who has been traumatised may experience some or all of the following:
- Constantly thinking about the event even when they don’t intend to;
- Re-experiencing the feelings and body sensations of the event;
- Avoiding reminders of the event by steering clear of certain places, people or subjects;
- Having nightmares of the event;
- Feeling on edge, expecting danger or reacting differently from others to certain events or people;
- Dissociating – shutting off aspects of their experience;
- A difficulty in trusting people or the world in general.
It is normal to experience the above symptoms immediately after experiencing a trauma; however, if they continue for longer than a few weeks, they can seriously disrupt a person’s ability to cope with normal life.
If you believe you are still suffering the effects of past trauma, a (usually short-term) therapy called EMDR can be very effective in reducing or even eliminating your trauma symptoms. EMDR can help you to rapidly process the distressing memory or memories, dramatically reducing their influence and allowing you to find more adaptive ways of coping.
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